Michelle Ntalami breaks-up with Makena Njeri
Michelle Ntalami officially single
Entrepreneur and C.E.O of Marini Naturals Michelle Ntalami has been dating her girlfriend Makena for a long time.
Michelle celebrated her 37th birthday in June with no signs of bad blood with Makena.
The two have been in a public LGBTQ relationship which has at some point attracted scrutiny from onlookers.
On Monday Michelle took to her Instagram and decided to explain what has been going on in her relationship.
From Michelle ‘s statement all was not well in their relationship.
Apparently Makena had been cheating on Michelle the whole time and with multiple partners.
She wrote a lengthy statement with details to explain her frustrations and the reason for their break-up.
The truth of the matter of why we are no longer together is serial infidelity on their part with multiple partners. Those I suspected and confirmed are two individuals; one a public figure, and the other a less known married woman, a health worker.
Eventually, these individuals undoubtedly confirmed the above. I attach screenshots and my responses simply to alleviate denial.
What’s worse, they have never admitted to what they have done, let alone apologized, despite me giving them several chances all year to come clean. As soon they knew I found out, they fled, occasionally popping in and out of my life but never once with the truth. This has caused me immense mental and emotional pain. This explains the unfollows and disengagement on social media and socially.
When it comes to love and relationships, infidelity will never be in my cards. Sure, no one is perfect. We all make mistakes. But at the very least, if they’d have owned up to what they’ve done, we would be in a much better place. I have sat silently with this pain for almost a year
It has eaten me up inside and affected my mental and emotional health. Each time I am asked about them, I am triggered with the reality of what they did. I now choose me. By speaking up about it, I am denying any more power to my pain. I deserve the peace.
What they have done to me is downright heartless. It is not right to go around hurting someone you claim to love, putting on a facade that all is well, while leaving their life in disarray and not being accountable for the pain and trauma caused. Regardless of whether or not we were publicly official with our relationship, it is the principle of breaking a human being in this way that I am calling out.
Besides the lies and infidelity, I feel extremely used. I am currently coming to terms with all of this. It has been a tough journey this year, but I am learning to let go of the hurt, move on and simply, adjust back my crown. Forgiveness is an emotion you arrive at, not decide to. My heart is big, I will get there.
This explains my absence in the events by the company. I will always love and support you, and if nothing else, all the work, effort and love I painstakingly put into the company we both began is the biggest evidence of that, and my greatest gift to you,” she wrote.